By Emily Sanderson — May 1, 1998
Imagine taking six children under the age of 9 to a foreign country for three years. Then imagine having to plan ahead for what clothes the children will wear and what foods they will eat for that period of time.
That is what Lisa Carter Kelly, a native of Morgan, has been doing for the past month in preparation for her family’s mission to Moscow. Her husband, Michael Kelly, of Orem, has been called to serve as mission president in Moscow for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Kelly is a BYU professor of Russian.
“We are thrilled and nervous but confident that this will be a grand adventure for our family,” Michael said.
As supplies are scare and limited in Russia, the Kellys have been planning ahead as much as they can. Boxes filled with children’s clothing and stacks of nonperishable foods such as cream of mushroom soup, tomato sauce, and jello filled the family’s front room, waiting for shipment, at the time of the interview.
“We hope that when the missionaries come to our house from time to time that we can give them a little of taste of America,” Michael said.
“Lisa has done a lion’s share of work” in preparation for the trip, he said.
Included in her list of items of clothing are coats which will keep her children warm in 25-degrees below zero weather.
“The trick is to try to guess how much they will grow in three years,” Lisa said.
Michael said that although English schools are present in Moscow, the couple has strongly considered putting the children in a public Russian school because of its closeness to their home. In addition, giving the children the opportunity to learn Russian and to associate with Russian children.
“That way they won’t feel so isolated,” he said.
However, the family plans on bringing plenty of videos and books to keep them speaking English in the evenings, as a few of their children are still learning to speak at all. Their children include 10-month old McKay, 2-year-old Alison, and 4-year-old Kirsten. The other children include Spencer, 6; Jacob, 7; and Annelise, 9.
Lisa and the children are learning Russian at the Mission Training Center in Provo three days a week, for which they have their own special tutor.
“The kids are very excited,” he said. “They are young enough that they are very adaptable. They are still tied to family and not as connected to friends at school.”
Lisa said her extended family has been very positive about the call and has been a tremendous help and support group for her.
Lisa, who has a BYU bachelors in English literature, is the daughter of Ralph and Fern Carter of Porterville. She met her husband in Washington, D.C., when Michael was working for the Treasury Department with his masters degree in public administration.
Michael studied the Russian language and its literature during one semester at BYU after he toured Eastern Europe with the International Folk Dance group.
“I experienced a real bond with the Eastern Europeans,” he said, “and I was frustrated with the language barrier.” Michael was able to communicate with them only through interpreters.
Russian was the only Eastern European lanaguage that was offered at BYU in the mid-1980s, although Michael was interested in studying other cultures as well. After studying the language and culture, Michael said he wanted to teach it.
“The spiritual depth of the Russian people just kind of grabbed me,” he said.
Michael found that he wasn’t happy building his profession around public administration with his job in Washington, D.C., and that despite the finances, he wanted to focus on the Russian culture instead.
“We had to follow our hearts, and we have been thrilled with the decision,” he said.
Michael and Lisa moved to Ohio State University in 1988 to complete some graduate work to support his new career. Concurrently with his decision came the fall of the Berlin Wall. Shortly after, Russia’s socialist government and economy fell, opening up the country to an international crowd of capitalists and investors. BYU hired Michael in the fall of 1993.
Michael received his call to serve as mission president in an hour-long personal interview with President Thomas S. Monson, first counselor in the First Presidency of the LDS Church.
“He was very generous with his time,” he said.
Prior to the interview, Michael has received a phone call from Elder David B. Haight, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. He asked Michael, “How is your Russian?” An appointment was scheduled for the two to meet and discuss the possibility of his being called as a mission president, and how his wife and family would react. Michael knew a call from President Monson’s secretary to schedule an interview for the next day.
The family will speak in the Lakeridge First Ward on June 14 at noon to say good bye to their family and friends. Their chapel is located at 575 S. 400 West in Orem.
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